Guatemala Adoption Blog

10/20/07

The Big Secret Revealed

Posted by : Lisa in Guatemala Adoption Blog at 12:33 am , 522 words, 368 views  
Categories: Family
No, I'm not pregnant (and at 54 and menopausal that would be pretty much a miracle), and unfortunately hubby is not going to agree to start another adoption. I also didn't win the lottery so I can't donate a few million to the orphans of Guatemala.

But, no less earth shaking in my world: Ella has a Guatemalan born cousin and is finally going to meet him in two days! Last year, September 2006, my wonderful niece and her equally wonderful husband finally got to bring their adorable little boy home from Guatemala. It was a long bumpy road for them, and the whole extended family let out a huge sigh of relief when he was home in their arms.

I was incredibly excited for Ella and little "J." How fantastic to know that every time they attend a family event they have a fellow Guatemalan born cousin there. In my eyes, having little "J" who is a mere three and a half months older than Ella is next best to having a twin. Now if only we lived closer to my niece and her husband so "J" and Ella could see each other frequently, heck daily!

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Why haven't I mentioned this before? Well, as every "public" blogger knows, we have to be very careful about preserving family members' privacy. So I kept it quiet until I couldn't stand it anymore. My three elder sisters will attest to the fact that as an annoying younger sister, I was never really good at keeping a secret.

The occasion that is bringing our wide spread family from two continents and three countries is my niece’s wedding - "J's "sweet auntie who is so amazing with children that I hope she has at least ten! Although it will be a short two and one half day visit, I have every intention of getting these two "toddler tornadoes" together as much as possible. Just from his pictures I know that they will share a lot of "toddler trade secrets" and relish running up and down the aisles of the hotel in ....Las Vegas!

You heard it right: this family affair is happening in the city that never sleeps, the city that has no clocks, and the city that won't be fazed by the energy levels of these two adorable children storming the town.

Some of you may be disappointed:"What, this is the big secret? Geesh." However it is not unusual for adoptive parents to go to any lengths to meet with other adoptive parents or travel many miles to reunite with families we met on our adoption journey. When that other child is my niece's son, it is a HUGE celebration.

By the way, "J's" mama, my niece is a pretty remarkable woman and I have known her since she was in her mother's womb. The fact that she and I have toddlers close in age, born in the same country is almost surreal; after all, she is almost two years older than my eldest son! I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Adoption is a miracle.

Let's hear the drum roll!

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Comment from: carlabirnberg [Member] Email
very cool.

we had so much fun at our meetup in houston!
PermalinkPermalink 10/20/07 @ 16:52
Comment from: LaurelJ [Member] Email
I am new to this blog. We returned two weeks ago from a wonderful visit to Guatemala! My son had been living there for two years and we went to pick him up. I fell in LOVe with the country and beautiful people. We met a 13 yr old boy whom my son had become acquainted with. He is darling and wants us to adopt him. His mom is dead and his father is not in the picture at all. He lives with his grandmother. We have 7 children, three of whom are adopted from Asia. The last thing we were planning was adding to our family, but that sweet boy made us fall in love with him. Now I hear it may not be possible because of the state of adoptions in Guatemala. Can anyone help me to know where to turn for help?
Thanks,
Laurie
PermalinkPermalink 10/20/07 @ 18:57
Comment from: Lisa [Member] Email · http://guatemala.adoptionblogs.com
Laura, congratualations on bringing your little boy home. Now about the older child you want to make a member of your family as well. You will need a very good Guatemalan adoption lawyer to help clarify this boy's status (relinquished, abandoned) and help you with this. You have two problems to deal with: 1. his personal situation, since there may very well be family who wants to parent him
2. the tricky situation in Guatemala right now.
The key right now is getting some sound advice from reliable sources. I will try to find out more for you as soon as possible.
All the best...
Lisa
PermalinkPermalink 10/20/07 @ 21:49
Comment from: Lisa [Member] Email · http://guatemala.adoptionblogs.com
Carla, I'd love to hear all about the "meetup" in Houston.
Lisa
PermalinkPermalink 10/20/07 @ 21:50
Comment from: gloria [Member] Email
Oh lisa!! How wonderful! I am so happy that Ella will have this special bond! This will be a huge blessing for her!

Please, please take pics of the 2 of them together!

Gloria:)
PermalinkPermalink 10/24/07 @ 13:25
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