Guatemala Adoption Blog

08/27/07

Good Things Happen Too!

Posted by : Lisa in Guatemala Adoption Blog at 07:04 am , 335 words, 382 views  
Categories: Adoptive Parent's Perspective

With the exception of my Thursday blog about Ella, last week I was the voice of doom. Of course I was keeping my readers up to date on the situation in Guatemala, but I was also ignoring the fact that wonderful things are happening simultaneously. All I needed to do was go searching on several Guatemalan adoption blogs to find them.

For example, people continue to make successful visit trips to Guatemala without incident. Smiling faces and hugs fill the photos posted online, and parents wistfully return home leaving their hearts in Guatemala. As difficult as it is to leave the children behind, few people ever regret the trip.

Moving on, children are still coming home regardless of the Casa Quivira incident and the tightening of the noose around the adoption process. Second DNA samples are done quickly and efficiently, and the beloved pink slips are being issued. Parents who have spent months preparing for the big day are finally holding their children in their arms forever.

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While Ella was napping today, I went to the U.S. Department of State website to find out how many children have been adopted from Guatemala since 1990; it is just under 25,000. Why did I do this?

For starters, I wanted to verify the number. But mostly, I wanted to try to put human faces to these numbers. That is a lot of children and a lot of family members and friends who are blessed by adoption from Guatemala.

With all the criticism of Guatemala, it is important to remember that their doors have been open to adoption since the 1980’s. Even though adoption is not a popular phenomenon in their culture, children have been allowed to leave their country.

I am well aware of the thousands of children still in need and the challenges in the adoption process, but I would like to say this to the country of Guatemala:

Thank you for trusting us with your children. Thank you for my daughter.

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Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
Just doing a little math myself, it looks like and average 1,470 Guatemalan children per year have been adopted by US families.

Does that sound like a huge number? Even when you calculate from the estimated birth rate in the country that in the same year that average 1,470 have been adopted, 369,115 have been born?

Considering the harsh circumstances of life in Guatemala, the poverty, lack of opportunity and choices for women and so on, it doesn't seem hard for me to accept that 1,470 children out of 369,115 born in a given year would come from women chosing adoption for their child.
PermalinkPermalink 08/27/07 @ 08:32
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
That should be 'look like AN average' ...

It's late here.
PermalinkPermalink 08/27/07 @ 08:47
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
Correction of a correction:

It should be "lookS like AN average".

I'm going to bed.
PermalinkPermalink 08/27/07 @ 08:57
Comment from: Lisa [Member] Email · http://guatemala.adoptionblogs.com
I agree Sandra. No doubt there is corruption, but not at the level suggested by UNICEF and other naysayers.
Lisa
PermalinkPermalink 08/27/07 @ 11:05
Comment from: emory77 [Member] Email · http://www.bullcityemorys.blogspot.com
Great post, thanks for the positive words.

We are currently working on the dossier, but there's a nagging hope inside that I can't deny. We are suposed to be here, doing this. And until the door is slammed shut we will proceed. Of course, with eyes wide open. :)

PermalinkPermalink 08/27/07 @ 11:16
Comment from: soblessed [Member] Email
Prayers, hope and faith to you emory77! I hope and pray that when we are ready for our second (no where NEAR there right now), we will do the same.

:)
PermalinkPermalink 08/27/07 @ 14:05
Comment from: EvaFion [Member] Email
hello everyone I wanted to leave this comment because my mom is a fostermom here in Guatemala, this is our first time... i'm 19 years old and since we started taking care of my little angie my life has completely change... i guess i see everything with different eyes now... i stared to find out about this situation (adoption)in my country because i want the best for angie and 'cause i'm studiying to be a doctor and i want to help all of this children, so if you have any question or... i dont know anything you want to ask me... my e-mail is evamafico@hotmail.com
p.s. i'm sorry if i have bad english but i'm still learning!
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 21:13
Comment from: JillnChris [Member] Email
EvaFion,
How great to hear from someone who is fostering! My heart goes out to all the fostermom's and families that so willingly give their hearts to these children knowing that they will have to say goodbye one day. I am forever thankful to the wonderful family that is taking care of our DD. Keep on studying to be a doctor, the children need people like you.
By the way, your English is great!

Jill
PermalinkPermalink 08/30/07 @ 09:34
Comment from: Lisa [Member] Email · http://guatemala.adoptionblogs.com
Eva,
How wonderful to hear from someone in Guatemala. I'd always hoped someone would hop onto my blog at some point.
Those of us who have had foster mothers take care of our children feel so very fortunate, and often keep in touch over the years.
Thank you for contacting us!
Lisa
PermalinkPermalink 08/30/07 @ 12:06
Comment from: EvaFion [Member] Email
hi everyone... i'm really happy to get in touch with some parents of guatemalan children in the U.S. or any country. i wanted to tell you that something that worries me is that most part of the times when the parents come to guatemala to recieve their babies we in both parts (the foster moms and the new parents) just can't express themselves because of the language and that the supervisors don't really help in that aspect... they actually seem to try to stop us foster families to get in touch with the baby's parents (at least thats what i have seen)i just can't understand why they do this if we have nothing to hide! the babies always live our country beautiful and healthy 'cause most part of foster families take care of them as their own children. i don't know if any of you have realized about this but i would love to hear your comments about this!
p.s. remember my e-mail if you want to talk about this things i would really like to get in touch with all the parents to know how are the lives of the kids in the U.S. BYE!
PermalinkPermalink 08/31/07 @ 11:20
Comment from: JillnChris [Member] Email
Eva,

I agree it is unfortunate that some attorneys do not like the foster parents to have contact with the adoptive parents. My agency told me that it is to protect us but I feel we should be able to make our own decision. I plan on keeping contact with our DD's foster parents and hopefully we will be able to visit them one day when our DD is older!

Jill
PermalinkPermalink 09/03/07 @ 11:21
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