Guatemala Adoption Blog

11/13/07

Child Brides

Posted by : Lisa in Guatemala Adoption Blog at 10:54 pm , 387 words, 624 views  
Categories: Women in Guatemala


If you never got to see the PBS special on “Child Brides”, you can watch it at your own convenience here. NOW’s production team traveled to Niger, India and Guatemala and put together this powerful documentary about young girls, some mere children, married off because of tradition, convenience, necessity, lack of options or all of the aforementioned.

It is not unusual for girls under the age of fifteen to be married in Guatemala and to have babies even younger than that. Not surprisingly, one in depth study I found while researching the subject showed that the less education young Mayan girls have, the earlier they are married. The median age for the marriage of Mayan girls who have had no formal education is 17.2; for girls with a primary school education it is 18.5; and for girls who go to secondary school or higher, it is 23.0 years old.

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Illiteracy among indigenous women is 75%, and indigenous women in Guatemala average only .9 years of schooling! By the age of seven, only 54% of Mayan girls are enrolled in school, compared with 70% of boys and 75% of non-Mayan girls. By the time they reach the age of fifteen, only one-third of the Mayan girls are still in school as opposed to 50% of Mayan boys and non-Mayan girls.

In the documentary, you will see a young Guatemalan girl of thirteen who is pregnant and dropping out of school. Even though she has a boyfriend who appears devoted to her, the chances of her having a life without poverty and multiple children who will probably suffer from chronic malnutrition is small.

Sometimes marriage is the only escape from a crowded one room hovel these girls share with their families and multiple siblings. Tragically, these girls end up creating an identical situation for their own children and perpetuating the cycle of poverty, illiteracy, hunger and hopelessness.

Education is essential to turning around their lives and their futures; without it there are few options. My daughter’s mother, a minor, was illiterate and so was her mother. On the adoption documents they signed with a thumb print.

Ella loves playing with letters and is eagerly learning their names and sounds. One day I will tell her that she may be the first woman in her birth family to have the opportunity to learn to read.

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Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
That was a deeply depressing documentary. Especially that poor girl with a fistula, ostricised when it was THESE folks fault for pressuring her into marrying so young.
But, UNICEF seemed to be doing something useful, trying to provide education to these girls so they could have more choices besides marriage.
Also it was cool how the leader of a tribe was against girls getting married when they were too young and wanted to stop that.
It's good when folks try to make things better for people.
PermalinkPermalink 11/14/07 @ 08:17
Comment from: Lisa [Member] Email · http://guatemala.adoptionblogs.com
Yes it is and one can only hope this horrible practice will end.
Lisa S.
PermalinkPermalink 11/14/07 @ 10:04
Comment from: my kid's dad [Member] Email
Thanks for the informative blog, I've been following it for a few months now. My wife and I have 1 adopted son from Guatemala and we just got a passing 2nd DNA test for another 18 month old boy. We expect to travel any day now. We have stayed at the Marriott before but have heard it has been booked lately due to elevator repairs. Can anyone recommend another good hotel near the embassey?
PermalinkPermalink 11/14/07 @ 10:16
Comment from: romee_1101 [Member] Email
La Casa Grande - right next to the embassy. No pool and not very big, but I loved it. It felt like I was in Guatemala and not some pseudo American world.

Romee
PermalinkPermalink 11/14/07 @ 10:50
Comment from: Lisa [Member] Email · http://guatemala.adoptionblogs.com
I've had many friends stay at the Grand Tikal, which is attached to a mall so very convenient. Also, the Westin is very nice, and also has a lounge.
Congratulations on completing your second adoption, and I'm so glad you are bringing your son home now!
Lisa S.
PermalinkPermalink 11/14/07 @ 13:56
Comment from: carlabirnberg [Member] Email
last paragraph? POWERFUL.

sad that its true.

I havent seen that documentary yet.

on my list to do when emma sleeps :)
PermalinkPermalink 11/14/07 @ 16:12
Comment from: Lisa [Member] Email · http://guatemala.adoptionblogs.com
Thanks Carla. I find myself thinking about it a lot.
Lisa
PermalinkPermalink 11/14/07 @ 20:13
Comment from: gloria [Member] Email
Yes, to marry young can lead to some problems..... especially in guatemala. So many young girls with no education and no skills are pregnant and no prospects of a good future....and then folks ask why there is a need for adoption?

Lisa it is a shame... I see it here as well in conservative christian circles as well -- child brides really..getting married at 18 and 19 and parents think it's ok.. it's sad... and to think that I thought I was too young when I got married ( shy of 25!)

There is a lot of growth and maturation that occurs for women in those young adult years.... I think for some women in poverty, they feel they have no other choices.

Tragic,
Gloria
PermalinkPermalink 11/30/07 @ 17:06
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